10 Relationship Tips That You Definitely Need To Hear
Navigating relationships can be tough, and sometimes (okay, most of the time) hindsight is 20/20
1- impact your current one.
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"Believe your partner when they say they love you for the first time. Just because things haven't gone like this before, doesn't mean it isn't real now."
2. Just because someone seems ~perfect~, doesn't mean they're perfect for you.
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"Even though a person may seem perfect on paper, and check everything off of your 'list', it still doesn’t mean you two are soulmates."
3. And searching for a "fairytale relationship" just isn't realistic.
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"Perfection isn't real or realistic — and if you feel like you have to be perfect with someone, or have to change yourself to get to that, it's probably not meant to be."
4. Don't invade your partner's personal privacy in order to find out if you can trust them or not.
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"Building trust, takes trust."
5. But don't ignore the red flags.
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"I ignored so many red flags and hunches during my two most significant relationships, and both of them ended up erupting into volatile, borderline abusive situations. I wish I had just trusted myself and heeded the warnings. Always listen to your intuition."
6. A healthy, loving relationship isn't supposed to hurt you over and over again.
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"Being with someone shouldn't be a constant struggle to please them; it should feel like coming home. I had to learn this the hard way, but the person I am with now was worth all of it. I feel more myself when I am with him, than when I'm with anyone else."
7. You can get into a relationship with people who have different interests and opinions from you.
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"Look, pineapple on pizza is an opinion. Whether refugees should be allowed basic care is a moral issue and value, not an opinion. You can be in a happy relationship with someone who has different opinions than you. However, it may be tough with someone who has differing morals and values."
8. And actions speak louder than words.
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"Sweet nonsense is superficial and really means nothing if there are no actions to back them up. Nice people aren’t actually ~nice people~ when they don’t treat you right."
9. There will always be people who have negative things to say about your partner and your relationship.
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"I️ wish I️ knew that not everyone wishes you the best and there will always be people who have something pessimistic to say about your relationship. While you should always trust your instincts, relationships are hard as it is, and you don’t need other people telling you what to do or how to feel."
10. But, if everyone in your life doesn't like your S.O., it could be a major sign.
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"If a majority of people in your life don't like your significant other, maybe you should at least hear them out and listen to their reasoning."








